Monday, November 28, 2011

I Have Been Changed For Good

'Who can say if I've been changed for the better
I do believe I have been changed for the better
And because I knew you
Because I knew you
I have been changed for good'
("For Good" - Wicked the Musical)

Some people come into our lives for a moment, passing flitting in and out and leaving barely a brush mark on our soul.
Some people come into our lives forever, shaping the long distance course of our years, our decades, our ever afters.
There are others, who lie between a moment and forever. They come into our lives for a season or two. They signal the end of winter, the growth of spring, the lazy glowing days of summer, the golden remembrance of things passed in the autumn.
They pass out of our lives, leaving memories, acting as turning points; forks in the road.
They have much to teach us if we only listen. If we are open.
If we share our experience and grow together.
These people of the seasons often sow the seeds of change for us to nurture when they leave and harvest down the road in our lives.
There is sadness when these people leave us. They do not pass as silently as the seasons.
Our lives will have gaps in their shape.
Our hearts will be cracked, often broken, needing time to heal.
When we are feeling lost, after our paths have peeled away from those who loved us for a season, we must first take a moment.
Take a moment to let your heart cry, let it shatter into a million bright and brilliant pieces.
Take a moment at the crossroads.
However, do not stay here for too long. Look at all the beautiful things that this person has left you with.
Remember the happiness, the love, the wonder that you shared.
Those things do not die when someone leaves our side. They live inside us as the fertile ground on which to begin a new life.
We are stronger because of what we shared. Our lives are richer because of the beauty they brought us.

I know that my life will seem a little hollow for a while now that you are gone. I know that I need to rebuild a future for myself.
But I must thank you first. Thank you for the love. Thank you for all the smiles.
I do believe I have been changed for the better.
Because I knew you.
I have been changed for good.


  1. Oh I love this! And I LOVED Wicked the Musical :)

  2. beautiful words and photos. love your blog name, too cute!

  3. u have my ongoing sentiment of take care! yes, it is painful saying goodbye, especially if we thought we'd have these people around forever. but like u've said, some people may stay a forever, others for awhile, but from each we are changed and learn something. wat never goes away though are memories...and the good ones are worth holding onto as well. :)

  4. this is beautiful and i can really relate to the message. i recently had someone leave my life and go down a different path but i know i am much stronger and more confident as a result of this person's influence!

  5. This is so beautifully written, Amy. I can totally relate to it. I am happy that this person had a positive influence on your life. To be changed because of a certain person is so special!